What Does It Mean To Be A "Cool"?
Before we show you how to be a "cool" ,it helps to understand what "being cool" exaclty means.
As you've problebly optimise the concept of "coolness" it completely subjective to some people like dancing , rapping , hiphop , artists and member of hardcore punk bands are the epitome of cool , while
for others , it's aloof performance artists.
1. Takecare of your health
You know what's not cool? neglecting health . people are less likely to take you seriously if you're out
of shape , mentally unbanlanced ,or -god forbid -both
think about it , what is you initial impluse when someone sneezes , coughs, farts profusely, or start talking like a maniac?you try to get away
It's only human nature for us to wan't be around people brimming with virant health.
Does this mean you have to have six-pack abs or baceps the size of your head ? no, but you should make an effort to eat healthy , exercise frequently , and get routine medical check ups to maintain a healthy BMI and well -fruntioning mind .
2. Learn how to talk cool
There is no way to talk cool , but there is one major thing all cool people have in common when communicating . they sound confident and self -assured
You want to sound like an authority when talking with other and this requires overcoming any
nervousness an anxiety you might feel and actively listening what's being said so that you respond throughtfully
your toun is also very important -more important than the actual words you speak in fact .studies on the
impact of communication suggest that anywhere from 20 to 40% what we communicate is depend on tone of voice .
learn to speak in a clam , consistently - tone voice, and try to inject a little humor into your conversations ( not forcible, of course ).
3. Don't Be A Jerk About It.
Cool guys and girks sometimes get a bad rap because movies and TV shows often portray then as shallow jerks and douchebags . If you think being cool means treating people badly , reconsider that viewpoint .
In truth , cool people - quality good people - are generally on friendly terms with everyone , instead of going around thinking they are better than everyone , they make an effort to be nice and respectful to the people in their lives and those they meet
This is a big reason why they are so liked and admired .
How to be cool .... Treat people like how you want to treated . being a jerk or douchebag doesn't make you cool -it makes you an enemy , someone few people want to be around.
4. Don't Be Afraid To Be different
Remember,. cool means having different things to different people , so dont be afraid to be different
Whether it means having a different fashion sense , taking interest in something that no one else does ,
or depending someone else , do it because it's what makes you feel happy and cool , not beacuse it's what someone wants you to do
Getting back to the section about being a rebel, the coolest people tend to be those who occasionally go against the tide and make people question the status
This can oftentimes make insecure people jealous of you , and they might stop to very low levels in an attemp to steal your thunder
Don't let that deter you ; build confidence in yourself so that their actions dont get to you ...
5. Be yourself , find your own style
Last but not the least , dont lose slight of yourself or your morals in your way to become cool . beacuse what's the point's of being cool if you're someone you are not
Indeed being cool is'nt about changing who you are - it's about elevating yourself to a new level so that you shine brighter that ever . its about being that best version of yourself
how to be a cool ? Accept you for who you are - all your good and bad habits strengths and weakness -and don't apologize to anyone for being true to yourself. being yourself while having people appreciate
and admire you is the epitome of cool.
THANK-YOU
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